“I am not laughing.”
Author: Megan Post Date: July 2 2009Reader-submitted complaint: Terry’s threatening tone has scared me into sending this to you anonymously. He should be deleting irrelevant and offensive blog comments. But by your estimation, he responds to people inappropriately, because you say that you object to name-calling and personal insults, especially when that’s all a person has to say.
Uhhh…OK.
I’ve been responding to reader-submitted complaints for a couple of years, but this is the first time anyone’s complained to me about someone else’s blog. I’m not sure whether this came to me because I agree with Terry about everything (this would explain the anonymity) or because I disagree with him about everything (this would explain why someone would complain to me about him).
I really can’t speak to the reasons an individual would allow irrelevant and offensive comments to be published, but I can tell you that this is something that bloggers spend a lot of time thinking about. We all get irrelevant comments — heck, I’ve been known to leave irrelevant comments from time to time — and every once in a while we’ll attract jerks. There is no consensus on how to deal with offensive comments. Trolls don’t know they’re trolls; they just think they’re crusaders for the truth.
Here’s a handy guide: If everyone on a certain website seems to dislike you, you’re probably a troll.
In general, I think offensive comments say a lot more about the person who leaves them than about the person they’re directed to. I don’t really pay much attention to them. Still, there may come a time when they’re creating a distraction and need to be deleted, and that’s a decision for the individual blog owner to make. My blog has a different tone and style than Terry’s does, and so do my comment sections. That’s not to say that one of us is better than the other; we’re just different. He moderates comments, but he appears to moderate with a fairly light hand.
As for inappropriate responses, well, I’m not sure how appropriate it would be for me to get into that. I don’t agree with everything on his site, and I’m sure he doesn’t agree with everything on mine. The real question would be whether a particular response is in keeping with his typical style: if something seems out of place, perhaps that’s something to bring up with him.
Terry and I both often blog about journalism, but I usually write about ethics and trends, and when I use examples, they’re usually from the national media. His focus is usually on northern media: the news sources that are most important to people in our region. (Again, neither is better; they’re just different.)
Thanks for your complaint.














